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Please tell me there are actually smart women around  

Cruiser_850 55M
16 posts
7/9/2019 5:57 pm

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Please tell me there are actually smart women around


So, I been texting a from another site for 2 weeks. I didn't give it much of a chance in my head. No, I did not try and sabotage it before we got know each other. I meant that I had a feeling that it was not going happen just by the way she wrote and the fact that she ignored my hours of sleep and kept texting in the middle of my night. Then she would get all upset that I didn't answer her question right that fucking minute.

So, tonight I am sitting here eating my dinner and getting ready for bed. She sent a message asking how my was. So I told her that I was having a bad and it actually started last night when someone texted me in the middle of my fucking night and demanded answers her questions. After that I could not get much sleep and that just escalated my crappy . Then she goes on some rant about stuff that was on my profile about sex stuff. Right away she starts in on the "I wont do it" statements.

She starts off with "I wont do anal". No big deal. I have be in the mood for it. And that is what I told her. Then she went into "No I will not be on top". Are you fucking kidding ? I asked her why. She says she is uncomfortable in that position. I told her that I think every one is uncomfortable in that position. But the outcome outweighs the uncomfortable by a long shot. She didn't care.

So she has been telling me that if I base things off sex then it wont give the relationship a chance. I told her that if someone is already saying "I wont do it" on the basic run of the mill sex stuff. Then it brings up what outside of sex will she not do. That went way over her head. She could not comprehend. I also told her that I have been down the "selfish, I don't want to do it" road before. I also told her that while I was down that road. When the was telling "NO NO NO". She was telling a dozen other guys "YES YES YES".

This female just blew up my phone with a bunch of texts. She has been trying sell herself (very poorly) and then scold on not giving a relationship with her a chance if I base it off her refusal do things sexually. I sent her a message back that says I am not basing things off sex. Unless it is terrible sex (too much of this around) or I continually hear "NO" all the time. Then I told her that if there was a really sweet BBW who wanted to be with me and she promised to bake me<b> chocolate </font></b>chip cookies. Who do you think I would choose? Just off what you are texting me.

I am starting to wonder if women really understand what it means to be in a relationship. Are there more women that are this messed up in the head in my area? I know I am not really good with words and describing myself. But then again. The mother of my has spread lies about me throughout my area. I am not asking for perfection. I am far from it myself. I am just asking for someone that is wanting to be there for "US" not for themselves.

Well, there is the phone again. I will see what she wrote. Then I am heading to bed. I have a feeling I am going to have to be mean to her in a text then block her number and then go block her in the other dating site.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/9/2019 7:03 pm

THE SITU SOUNDS FUCKED UP


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/9/2019 7:30 pm

You need to ask yourself , "Do I really need a relationship".... the answer should be , "No".

You did the mandatory husband thing to have a child... you don't need a to be in a relationship now.

Now women should be for sex and entertainment.

Ha.. yes, the "I won't do that" , should demand the immediate drop kick of her ass to the curb.


dogslife2live01 72M

7/9/2019 9:18 pm

yes cruiser there are smart women out there...
but smart won't make them compatible with you

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/9/2019 10:09 pm

I think I am smart. Then I realize I am here. Now I’m starting to wonder. 🤦‍♀️


Cruiser_850 55M
8 posts
7/10/2019 3:49 am

Last night I ended up telling her off. What makes me laugh is that she did not get it. I kept telling her that I was not basing my decision off of sex. But she kept bringing it up. So she was the one that was hung up on the sex thing. Then she went into a guilt trip hoping it would work on me. I told her to stop contacting me. I also told her that she had shot the horse before she found out that the horse she just shot was the one that pulls her wagon.

I blocked her number on my phone. I blocked her posts on the other dating site. What happened last night? She could not understand the "Do not contact Me" statement. So, in the middle of my night. She calls my cell. Leaves a message. I just checked voice mail. It was her. As soon as I heard her name I deleted the message. .

This just makes me extremely happy that I did not tell her where I live or who I work for.

Where are the normal women? Am I going to have to move to Arkansas and start a kissin cousin relationship?


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/12/2019 2:23 pm

    Quoting Cruiser_850:
    Last night I ended up telling her off. What makes me laugh is that she did not get it. I kept telling her that I was not basing my decision off of sex. But she kept bringing it up. So she was the one that was hung up on the sex thing. Then she went into a guilt trip hoping it would work on me. I told her to stop contacting me. I also told her that she had shot the horse before she found out that the horse she just shot was the one that pulls her wagon.

    I blocked her number on my phone. I blocked her posts on the other dating site. What happened last night? She could not understand the "Do not contact Me" statement. So, in the middle of my night. She calls my cell. Leaves a message. I just checked voice mail. It was her. As soon as I heard her name I deleted the message. .

    This just makes me extremely happy that I did not tell her where I live or who I work for.

    Where are the normal women? Am I going to have to move to Arkansas and start a kissin cousin relationship?
. I told her to stop contacting me. ....Good.


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