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"Pot, Meet My Friend Kettle...."  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
8/28/2012 7:54 pm
"Pot, Meet My Friend Kettle...."

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ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/14/2016 7:29 am

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RYR68 56M
2 posts
9/6/2012 7:08 am

You can still put up whatever photo you like BUT put something like this in your greeting:

"All emails without the special phrase from my profile will automatically be deleted."

Then, strategically place a phrase in your profile such as, "brain stimulation required before any benefits."

btw- I am a lifelong Packer fan (even through the lean years of the 70's and 80's) so I am really digging the hat photo!


gottaring replies on 9/6/2012 7:43 am:
That's a good idea! Most guys don't read my profile anyway, but the few who do will definitely have a 'leg up' on the competition.

I usually keep my Packer photo up during football season, though it seems to give a lot of guys an point of conversation when they email me. Not a bad thing, as I prefer a guy who appreciates the Green and Gold!

CampoGirl 58F
43434 posts
9/4/2012 8:13 am

I am guilty of showing my ass, but its for different reasons than getting comments. Ive ALWAYS been an exhibitionist, and its just a miracle that Ive never been busted while flashing. This gives me a safer forum to be an exhibitionist without going to jail!

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


gottaring replies on 9/4/2012 1:44 pm:
Exactly!! I'm a HUGE exhibitionist and I love that I can let loose out here. It helps that my readers are so kind with their compliments- they are the reason I feel comfortable exercising that side of my personality.

Thanks for stopping by, Babe!!

PurplePeach72 51F
9194 posts
8/29/2012 4:47 pm

I have always had very sexy profile pics up but I still expect men to read the profile and guess what many of them do just that. I think my high expectations pay off in the quality emails I recieve from sexy intelligent men. Even if their main profile pic is a cock shot I will make the effort to read their profile. Of course I still get the lame one liners but they are only a touch of the delete button away. I don't feel they are a refection on me at all. I'm not asking to be disrespected because I choose to show my body. Not looking does free me from giving a shit about any worry of how I am percieved.
Kisses,
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Kisses,
LA


gottaring replies on 9/4/2012 1:47 pm:
I'm not asking to be disrespected because I choose to show my body. Not looking does free me from giving a shit about any worry of how I am percieved.

Exactly, LeeAnn!! Well said!

Indi297 55F

8/29/2012 3:21 pm

As you are well aware men have more then just one brain. They put up these cock shots in lieu of posting what interests the fairer sex. They assume that ALL women are interested in all that is taboo. Just because this is A F F they post the cockadoodledoo! Don't rule them out G. There is way more behind the man and his cock... and you will figure that out PDQ after one email. You are way too smart and intuitive to put up with any BS.

I would agree w/the others, try posting a pic with glasses, book, and booty... see what that reels in. However, just the glasses alone does it for some, trust me.


gottaring replies on 9/4/2012 1:49 pm:
You sassy girl! I look awful in glasses- trust me. Not nearly as sexy as you!!

rm_Quixy101 71M
9036 posts
8/29/2012 8:24 am

Nah, you're just witnessing the typical male reaction. To me you are sexy and beautiful. I love your pictures, even your eye...lol. But before I even looked at your pictures seriously I read your blog, talked with you via email and was smitten by your charm and wit. Then when I looked at your pictures in earnest I saw the absolute beauty that fills out the whole picture of you. Sexy pictures alone do not make a person. I have had occassion to send emails to "THE" pictures of perfection, but often I find the person behiond the picture lacking. With you the opposite is true. The pictures fulfill the person, you my dear G, are the complete package...my only regret is that you live in Wisconsin and I in Manitoba...sigh


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
8/29/2012 8:00 am

I really don't get it in the fact that just because you changed your profile pic, some guys feel the need to treat you differently I know it's not just yourself where this has happened.


LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
8/29/2012 4:53 am

I don't understand why intelligence and sexiness have to be mutually exclusive. It's not YOUR problem if the men can't ogle your picture and then read your profile and see that you are a woman of substance. It's not a problem in the way you're advertising yourself, it's a problem of men not looking past the surface. Like you said, maybe you should look at the cock picture and THEN read the profile. Turn about is fair play. We all need to be able to appreciate both the physical and intellectual properties of our potential partners, right?

I am a firm believer that I should be true to both sides of me: the sexy and the smart side when I present myself here. The right men will discover both parts

Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

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bustybettyboop 57F
59311 posts
8/29/2012 3:37 am

ohhh ok...felt bad there for a minute!

..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
8/29/2012 1:03 am

literacy is the dying skill these days. honestly i would totally dig your ass, wait that should be i totally dig your ass.


w00f 49F
1087 posts
8/28/2012 11:14 pm

I think you're right in spotting a disconnect. I wouldn't join a contest personally that asked my profile to be any different from what it is but that's just me. Now if they had a writing contest...but I can't see fishnets involved there either.

I don't know what your motives are for joining this contest but your core following will still be there after its over. And it does seem to have made you think and smile and find more friends. Not bad at all.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/28/2012 10:15 pm

If you wear glasses, perhaps the librarian look would promote both intellect and sexy?

Thoughts from the Garden...


rm__Safira 61F
11258 posts
8/28/2012 9:37 pm

Remember my blog post ... Remember my blog post ... Remember my blog post!

That said, I like the idea of you in the body suit, reading a book, in glasses.

This is my blog - [blog _Safira]. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

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KarlBloggerfeld 54M
8624 posts
8/28/2012 8:44 pm

Putting up an ass photo is like chumming shark infested waters. And it makes you work harder because you get that many more profiles and emails to read through... If you're going to go to the trouble of trying to strike up a friendship with anyone, that is.

I'd rather deal with that problem than the opposite - no interest at all.

karlbloggerfeld - Dry-humping your legs since 2007.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
8/28/2012 8:21 pm

Well, I think your eye picture is spectacular and for the record your eyes are a attractive as your ass.

(though I might be biased since my eye picture is getting some surprising attention.)


bustybettyboop 57F
59311 posts
8/28/2012 8:15 pm

ohhhh girl! i'm sorry! i think you look great! if it makes you feel any better i don't have any pics half as sexy as yours up and i get e-mails like that all the time! lol! once we get to the 3rd round you can bring back your eye pic where your comfy and take a deep breath! if its any consolation i think you look amazing!!

..just join me on my blog bustybettyboop and still looking for some hot,sexy,creative contestants for my next contest...come join us! need a blog mentor or want to be one?


gottaring replies on 8/28/2012 9:19 pm:
You have NOTHING to apologize for! If anything, I should be thanking you! Your project has brought us all together in the spirit of fun- exactly what blogging should be about. And posting this photo reawakened interest in my profile- my inbox was dead for a while. But since I'm back on the market, it's a good way to get some potentially decent dudes looking my way .

So, thank you, Busty .

FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
8/28/2012 8:14 pm

Sorry, GR, I can offer no advice, although I know I am guilty of discriminating against the guys who post cock shots. And this coming from the gal who used to have a pic of her bare ass, on a picnic table?

The reason I took that one down, was that it went completely against the information provided in my profile. It is a definite conundrum.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


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