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Traversing New Terrain
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GOOD
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"Proceed with caution." Deal.
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gottaring replies on 9/24/2012 6:25 am: Not at all! I didn't take offense and I know you weren't being nosy . We're all good!           
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gottaring replies on 9/22/2012 6:09 pm: I've made no secret about my lack of a sex life, lol. It is what it is and I've learned to live with it. There's a bigger picture that I need to focus on. I hope you weren't offended, My comment was only meant to clarify my missreading of your comment because I thought you were talking about me not having sex for almost a year, which I haven't since last Oct1. I wasn't prying or trying to be offensive!
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Not to discount the wisdom (and humor in presentation) in your post, but I'm damn impressed you weigh what it says on your driver's license!!! Good for you...
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9/22/2012 7:20 pm |
The Disneyland analogy is a good one with one qualifier, Ms. G. The rides in an amusement park don't really care to share your pleasure. As a sensing and caring lover I find it critical to pick up on the pleasure points that your lover has ... and play to that audience with joy! So ... go to the park ... but bring as much pleasure to your ride as you hope to receive from it ... HER! B
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I think you have the makings of a therapist or a teacher. You are so right! What I like varies from lover to lover!
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I agree, all women are not created equal. Sadly, all men are  
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9/22/2012 1:05 pm |
Hi pleased to meet me. 
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...................................................................... There aren't many things better than a kick-ass workout. Sex is one of them. Wait, let me rephrase that. Good sex is better. I often hear a movie quote repeated that goes something like this: "Sex is like pizza. Even when it's bad, it's good." I couldn't disagree more. Bad sex is like a highway traffic jam. You just can't wait to find your exit! Haha  And I'm sure I have my off days, but it's nice when someone tells you that you're the story they brag to their girlfriends about. .......................................................................
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9/22/2012 8:35 am |
I'm surprised this young 'un is willing to discuss sexual technique with you. As a proud BDSM into my 6th decade I still have a hard time being that open. But I think he is looking for a little OJT from you. I haven't had sex with my husband in over a year either. 
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gottaring replies on 9/21/2012 9:20 pm: Nah. If I were asked about my credentials I couldn't lie. And who takes advice from a woman who hasn't had sex with her husband in almost a year? I'm just calling upon my past experiences when it comes to Eric, and soon I won't be able to remember them! Am I reading this right? YOU haven't had sex with your husband in almost a year, ALSO!! 
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Gottaring... sexual instructor to the young and foolish! Great post by the way... we can all use some sexual advice from time to time! Hopefully he will make the most of it. You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!
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That was a totally awesome post!
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so nice of you to find a quad again, and then to help this sadist with his love life. that is cool. he really doesnt know a whole lot and will totally benefit from your knowledge. attagirl.
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I'm 44. I don't claim to be brilliant, but I feel like I am SO much smarter now than I was in my teens and twenties. Would love to have this knowledge and the stamina/body I had when I was young.
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I have not know a single in my life time. That does not like to get finger banged. And that does not like oral. This is not meant to offend any one in any way.     
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Kids at Disneyland is a good analogy....lots of exploring to do, in wonder and awe. But, they should communicate what ride they want to go on next! You may think about giving Eric some direction on how to get this Ninja GF to open up more.....ummm .. to talk and verbally express her likes, wants, needs, desires, wishes, fantasies. If she is totally quietand still all the time, how will Eric know what she likes and doesn't like, or when he's even heading down the right track? Getting a woman, I'll be bold here, under 35 to open up about her desires is something that takes quite a bit of training. Yeah, she may know she wants to fuck, but HOW does she want it? She may not know herself (there seems to be something magic about 35 and up), or may not know how to express it (again 35 and up). just sayin.
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You have the knowlege to be a professional sex therapist! 
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If both are not greatly experienced then it is a great big Disneyland for both to explore. She may not know what is going to drive her nuts though like anal there are some things to be approached very cautiously. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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I've actually know several men who did not like oral at all. All 3 of them just didn't like a woman's mouth on their cock. 2 of the 3 loved to give but no recieiving and the other didn't give or recieve. Young Eric is lucky to have a Cougar mentor to confide in and get some sage advice. I would also urge him to talk to his partners. Communication is the most important factor in any successful relationship. Kisses, LA   
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Sounds like young Eric has is own personal trainer.. sexual personal trainer! .."...and then God created the orgasm, so women can moan even when they are happy"- Tantra 
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