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vanila: hot... kinkey: i got to burn my house down... hahahahaha.... 
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Excellent questions - you know, I sometimes think I'm being all kinky and adventurous, but then I start to think that these days almost everyone experiments with bondage and spankings and so forth. Well, maybe not spankings at a house party where everyone else is spanking and/or being spanked, too  Anyway, I think wanting to get someone aroused from a distance is just naughty fun. But hey, if you're enjoying being a bit dominant, roll with it and take it further    
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You as a Vanilla Domme sounds delish to me and probably even more men...lol...as many others have said kinky varied based on who you're talking to. As for the basic question about making someone hard from miles away, I regularly make my Viking hard and cum from over 7000 miles away. We don't think its wierd at all. I just wish he could do the same for me over the phone...lmao... Kisses, LA   
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I don't find that there is any set line that anyone can agree on for where vanilla ends and kink stops. While I'm likely the kinkiest person I know from my day to day life. When it comes to kink I'm far from the kinkiest person in the area. As for liking making someone hard just to do it. Nothing strange about that at all. I used to love getting Kittie worked up when she was at work. I and when I find someone else I'm sure I will love to idea of doing it to her. I didn't find anything all that odd in anything else you mentioned. Although the kink community here stresses negotiation which would mean asking about the vibe and skittles before hand. 
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gottaring replies on 10/17/2012 10:55 pm: First off, he's not exactly a 'young man'. He's positively ancient (and yeah, I know he's going to read this and that's my way of poking him in the tummy. I even manage to flirt with him when I'm responding to someone else- it's basic multi-tasking, lol). Secondly, try anal. It's good to give your vag a break once in a while . OK, I was just saying young man to be polite. The old fart can handle it. And who said I haven't tried anal? The last thing my vag needs right now is more of a break  I am the only Me you get.
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gottaring replies on 10/17/2012 6:57 am: Does she know she has this effect on you? Hopefully you tell her . She knows the effect she has on me!! 
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If I didn't know better, I would have guessed you were talking about me. Just kidding, that was in my mind. I love it when a women tries to get me aroused while I'm in a meeting. I also enjoy being aroused from a distance. I don't think kinky or vanilla, just having fun. Sorry I missed your truth or dare post. That looked like so much fun.
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Yes, it is proper to thank someone after a rim job. Just don't kiss me.  Of course it's a control thing, and an ego thing for you. But I'll bet it's a sexual thing and ego thing (for the attention) for him so it works for you both. I personally would be very flattered if I had a 40 yr old babe texting and calling me. Do you have my number?
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Ahh zee brains, zee brains are aroused by zee craziest things! You know people pay to have done to them what you are giving this young man for free? Just sayin'.... It is not abnormal. Not going to say it is normal, or average, but it can be hot as hell. Even I, extremely submissive type that I am, can get off on occasion to being in control and knowing I have the power to give pain/pleasure/intensity to another person. But he still can't fuck my ass, even in fantasy!  I am the only Me you get.
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i can honestly say that i dont know if i have ever made anyone hard let alone from 300 miles away. the kinky vanilla thing is something i think anyone is wrestling with. it is why i kept my kinks somewhat hidden when dating. i am way more interesting in you being raunchier when upset. that to me makes me want to call you all sorts of horrible names.
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Kinky (and by association, vanilla) runs the gamut and is directly related to the people involved. THEY define what is kinky... or not. Case in point. a gentleman who I saw several times last year decided to discuss our activities at the local bar (hence why I only saw him a few times) while a very good friend was bartending. His statement to the other guys gathered around was "That girl is a freak in bed I tell ya, a freak." When my bartending friend told me about the conversation I had laugh. "He thought THAT was freaky?.. oh hell, next time you see him, tell him that I can show him freaky if he is so inclined." To me it was straight out vanilla... guess he hadn't been with a woman that LIKES sex and is comfortable with her sexuality. Am I a freak?.. Kinky?.... I think Im that vanilla/chocolate swirl thing ... but there again, "I" define it, no one else. So... "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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The line where vanilla ends and kinky begins depends on the parties involved. For example, if a husband and wife have been married 15 years and are still monogamous, there's not a sex toy that's been made that could make sex between the two of them "kinky." On the other hand, if you whip out your strap-on on a first date, that might raise a few eyebrows. And regardless of the length of the relationship, I think any time there are more than two people naked in the same room, that starts to veer into the kinky lane. I do believe, however, that you only really need to worry about vanilla vs. kinky when you're scared of offending the delicate sensibilities of the person(s) you're with. And since I don't have delicate sensibilities ... Bring on the nipple clamps and latex fists. karlbloggerfeld - Dry-humping your legs since 2007.
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You're far from weird. The fact is, I don't normally initiate the first move when it comes to sending naughty texts or pics. Maybe I'm the weird one  
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Ok. My "That Gal" is 500 mies away!!! Lol! And I love turning her on and getting her dripping!!! Unless of course she is faking! The sly minx!! Lmao! It's much more fun if I can ever get to see her again!!!  not kinky I believe, just fun and flirtatious!!! Now, to find someone I can actually meet!!! Lol!
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I like the thought of turning someone on from a distance and I also like it being done to me. ~~Anais Nin~~
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I just want to know if it's weird to be aroused by the thought of making someone hard from 300 miles away. Or is that just a normal Wednesday in your world too? I don't think it's weird but it's not really sexual either, it's about the control more than the sex. I don't think it's normal or abnormal, it's all what you are into. The humorous answer to the "what is kinky" question is "Sexy is using a feather during foreplay and kinky is when you use the whole chicken". I sometimes wonder if "kinky" is anything that is beyond the pale of what *we* would do. I've also found that if you have to ask if it's kinky...it's usually not. As a matter of fact (the more I think about it) I find myself suspicious of people who say "I'm kinky" because so many people i have met who say that are trying very hard to be special, mysterious, or dangerous. I guess what I'm saying is that I don't think there is a definitive answer for "what is kinky" and more than there's an answer for "what is normal".
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post 3021883 I think it's all fine .. nothing weird or crazy about it at all from my view. If I was that guy, I'd feel a tremendous degree of flattery and ego boost knowing that you want to do that to me. Playful teasing and sexual verbal and pictoral suggestion is sooooo hot! If you enjoy it, as you say; and he enjoys it ... there ya go;... . NICE! 
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I love all your questions! I have no real answers, or perhaps I am just too tired to try? At any rate...I am enjoying reading everyone's replies too. Good post even it was to kill time ~ Read My Blog ~ justhe2ofusmt ~ Party Details ~ Elicit Underground ~SEXY~  ~FUN~
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I don't know about weird or not, but getting someone hard (or wet as it were) long distance isn't really sexual, it's just an ego/self esteem thing. Course, it's not my place to judge the masturbatory fantasies of others, so if it works for you, that's okay by me. On the other hand, any man over the age of 14 that can orgasm from a picture or a text is a fucking sicko. 
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I don't think anything in this post is weird. In answer to your last question, there is someone on this site that is 2000 miles away and she makes me hard "every" time I talk to her.
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Wow, that was a lot of questions. Let's see... Generally, I think the distinction between vanilla and kinky is what the average person would do. Not the average person *here*, but the average person in your town. That usually limits it to certain sexual positions, oral, and anal, and nothing outside the bedroom. Toy play as a couple, bondage, ass licking, food play, footjobs... I would consider any of those to be beyond what the average person would consider "normal sex". Your domme mode sounds a lot like what I went through with Mistress. She would send me all sorts of text message commands while I was at work, and I would have to comply. Usually, I would have to go to a private bathroom in order to take pictures as proof. She really enjoyed the ability to control me, especially when she felt like she lacked control in other areas of her life, while I enjoyed the submission and the naughtiness of doing things like that while at work. It also makes me wonder sometimes if I'm the *only* one at work who is doing something naughty. Hmmmm...  Prostate massage -- YAYAYAYAYAYAY! But maybe that's just me. Many men (and women too) are afraid of anal penetration. Especially so for men, as many men mistakenly think that if you enjoy anal play, you must be gay. That's just homophobic bullshit. There are lots of sensitive nerve endings around the anus, and stimulation of the prostate can lead to some huge loads of cum. Can you bring your own vibe? I assume this was still related to the prostate massage. As long as it hasn't been used on other guys, I don't see the problem. As for size, it depends on his level of experience. If he's new to it all, you're going to need to start small and work up to bigger objects over the course of many sessions. Nipple clamps depend on the size of the nipple. The devices are unisex, but women generally have longer nipples, so there's more to grab on to. I've tried nipple clamps, but I have such tiny nipples, they tend to slide right off. Yes to Skittles. Or M&M's. Or a trail of whipped cream. I'm not scared of double penetration... as long as it's two strapons. Oh, did you mean MFM? I don't know that I'm *scared* of it so much as I think I would feel uncomfortable in a threesome with another man.I don't think distance is that important when it comes to sex talk. However, if they ever figure out how to build "Star Trek" transporters, they will immediately get overrun by people wanting to hook up for sex with people all over the globe. If you have any questions you feel are too embarrassing to ask out loud about a domme/sub relationship, feel free to send me an email. I'll try my best to answer them. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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Oh my Gottaring, you must have been hanging out with the Buni again! Can I give you my wife's number and let you chat with her about it? Please? I would love to get the surprise messages and pictures when I least expect it. So, personally I think it is not normal, but you should do it anyways!!!
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An erection knows no distance, and bullwhips and a set of anal beads are for pussys! Now let me bring out my Spartan bronze shield, my red cloak, and my helmet... and I will show you manly domination! Thoughts from the Garden...
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