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Spitting During Sex... Really?  

lionthatroared 53M
232 posts
9/13/2012 9:38 pm

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8/28/2013 7:22 pm

Spitting During Sex... Really?

Hello, and I'm back! Miss me?

Apparently not, since no one flooded my message box with sexy messages, like I had hoped. It's funny, I just read a complaint from a lovely lady on here that she was "only" getting 10 or so messages a day. Sigh... ah, to be so loved that I could have that complaint...

Anyway...

While I was away on my National Guard thing, I had some time on my hands. Specifically, WITH my hands, since Lion didn't find a ladyfriend while down in Paso Robles. Oddly, though, I may have a good shot the next time I'm down there with a very lovely blonde woman... go figure. But anyway, I was a lonely boy while I was down there, so being the fairly randy fellow I am, I took matters in hand and found some stress relief in porn.

Now, I know damn well that porn is NOT reality, by any stretch of the imagination. Sex is relative to porn in the manner that there IS some sort of sexual activity involved, but that's about where the similarity stops. It's one of the reasons I prefer amateur porn over professional... it's much more real, and the participants are usually much more personally involved.

But what I DO know is that the whole point of porn is to excite, tantalize, and otherwise turn on the viewer to the point of that certain special moment. So I really have to wonder why on earth so much porn out there has men and women spitting on each other?

I mean, really? Spitting? Why exactly is that a turn-on? Frankly, it's disgusting, it's disrespectful to the person you're spitting on, and visually speaking, it's about as attractive as vomiting. I know, it's just saliva, and it's going to end up on the guy or gal in question anyway... what's the difference between spitting on the guy's dick and licking or sucking it? It all ends up on the dick, so who cares how it gets there, right?

Yuck. Seriously. Yuck.

I've had a couple of women spit on my cock before, and I made them stop doing it after the first time. It's NOT sexy. They told me they do it to lubricate my cock so they can give me a hand job, or to make it easier to swallow it (not that I've ever found a woman who could take it entirely down, but that's another story), or simply because they saw it on a porno and thought I'd like it. When I told them I didn't like it, all but one actually looked relieved and said they wouldn't do it again... but one woman actually got a little huffy about it. I guess she figured I SHOULD like it, or something.

But I can't get past it. Drooling spit over my cock, or actually hocking a loogie onto it... UGH! Gross! I'm sorry, that's just plain disrespectful to the guy. There's no enjoyment there. Spitting is the universal sign of disgust, disrespect, and insult... why on EARTH would you be having sex with me if you felt that way???

And spitting on a woman's kitty? Dude... WHY??? Let's face it, if you have to lube that girl up by spitting on her, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG! My saliva may end up all over her business, but it will be because my tongue is working overtime on her clit. Now, I've been told that sometimes there can be problems with vaginal dryness, and certainly that's a problem some couples have to deal with. To that, I say... USE LUBRICANTS! There are SO many types out there, including some very tasty flavored ones! Saliva is a terrible lubricant unless constantly applied, and spitting is not a pleasant delivery system.

But here's the thing: apparently, it IS a turn on for a lot of men and women. After all, the porn industry is out to make money, and I don't think I've ever seen a porno that didn't have at least one person spitting or drooling on another person's junk. They would never make it such a staple of porn if it was universally considered gross, so it stands to reason that, in fact, a large portion of people who watch porn enjoy the spitting part... otherwise, they'd cut that part out and keep it clean.

I've also read pornographical stories... written some, in fact... and a large portion of those stories also feature spitting and drooling. Mine, for the record, did not. So it's not just a visual thing... it's also an imagination-capturing thought!

So what am I missing here? Am I alone on this? Is spitting and drooling all over each other's sexual organs actually a hot thing to do? Do any of you get into this? Do you know people who do? Have you encountered this yourself?

And... wipe your mouth before typing. It gets the keyboard all messy.

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buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
9/14/2012 4:03 am

it is disgusting. I had a luvaa do it once. Once. He did not get invited back.

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


lionthatroared replies on 9/14/2012 7:50 am:
Ugh... poor Buxie! Maybe we need to put a sign over the bed?

"No shoes, no shirt, no problem! But ABSOLUTELY no spitting on the premises!"

Or something like that.

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demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
8/17/2013 2:05 am

The hair pulling thing... I like a gentle firm pulling/holding but had a long-time lover suddenly get into yanking. I had stars flash behind my eyes once. I said "Ow" a couple times and he replied "You need to toughen your scalp up"... really needed to point out the whole "You love long hair. If you yank it out at the roots: it won't be long" discussion. Amongst other things.

Sorry... just had to respond to that response It's really bugging me.

AS for spitting during porn... I've wondered myself why they do it and it grossed me out too. Plus "is that supposed to be a turn on? really??" I've never tried it, never will. Frankly I am no good at spitting even if I want to lol. I also don't get the long saliva chain thing.


lionthatroared replies on 8/22/2013 8:35 pm:
Oh sweetie! I tugged on her hair, and it turned out to be a wig!!! The wig came off, not her actual hair! I NEVER pull so hard on hair that it hurts, that kinda defeats the purpose! No no no! Good grief, as a guy with a hair fetish, that's the absolute LAST thing I'd want!!! Don't worry, it wasn't like you're thinking.

And I don't get the saliva chain thing either.

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