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desperate? tell me your thoughts...  

wetclitopened 48F
599 posts
4/9/2009 3:31 pm

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desperate? tell me your thoughts...

i am really getting tired of the emails i am beginning to receive about meeting with me. it shows since bbwnsa.com was bought off by another company, i am sensing the people that are joining the site are not of quality or maybe they have only been used to the "pay-my-way" for sex attitudes.

i am getting emails that seem the implementation behind the words on my profile suggest desperation on my part to meet men, women, couples, whoever to fulfill any sexual release i have.

i have been on this site for many years and many of the people i have spoken to and met in person or emailed through here or yahoo messenger can tell you i am nowhere near being desperate in any type way!!!

i have had every type of persona, body types, class types, and sexual enjoyment types of people. and i have not had them once, but many times they choose to return to me because i am good at what i do and i am truly real with my sexuality. i will NEVER have to settle on anyone...i can choose who will talk to me, meet me and sleep with me.

so before you think i am desperate for any jump in the sack for whatever reason you may think, please do not even try to bully me with the bullshit...it is childish and very poor character of who you are as a person...

and to those that write me and ask if the site has been successful for me...the answer...HELL YES...i am quite different from anyone you will ever meet or talk to...why? are you asking why? well yes, becasue i come real...no bullshit here. my motto is take it or leave it and be honest. life is too short to play game and i have a real life story for you on why life is too short...

so before YOU desperado's out there...please don't waste your time...i am choosy and i know what i want and will handle MY BUSINESS ON MY TERMS AND MY TIME!

can anyone give me the definition of desperate? lol...go on and google it..or just say in your own words...my def is "willing to take anything in or for satisfaction" am i close enough? lmao!!

if you cannot understand this blog, please ask me to explain, but i think the people that know me, they know for me to write this blog, someone just pissed me off...but i will repeat for those of you who do not read thoroughly...

I AM NOT A DESPERATE WOMAN ON THIS SITE.

now, i surely like to hear all your thoughts on this...whether you know me or not...it surely intrigues me how people are interpreting my profile...

thanks for your thoughts and postings ahead of time...

kisses~!~!~!~!


wetclitopened 48F

4/9/2009 6:05 pm

aaawwww, 6t9...that was sweet, and yes, you yourself have always come to me correct, never stupid with your words you choose...i must say thank you for being a gentleman!!!

and for ridinsxy1000, you know you are my boo!!! if anyone knows me, you truly know i have no time for playing games and i am real...i come correct and lay it all out 1st and foremost to make it the best it can be!!!

i knew my good guys would come out and tell me what was up with that!!!

thanks to both of you...kisses...


rm_tallcotton56 67M

4/9/2009 7:50 pm

All I know is that you seem like a true lady and are on here for the right reasons. Have some fun, have some sex if you desire and make some friends. Any nut thinking you are just easy pickings is wrong in my opinion. Yes you have a hot body and it stimulates any man's sexual desire, but one thing I see is the strength, self confidence and passion to be your own person. You know what you want and can go after it.

Thanks for being real and thanks for the hot pics and vids. I enjoy them often.

XO


slikey5 58M

4/9/2009 8:08 pm

Baby girl you tell them. Now that you got them straight. Keep doing what ever you want to stay happy. My Hat off to you.


rm_Squidley1958 65M
326 posts
4/9/2009 8:12 pm

It ticks me off that someone was that rude to you...
If you need the problem removed, I have some friends...


Disc 54M  
136 posts
4/9/2009 8:42 pm

Well, I can only imagine the sheer volume of email you must get, just knowing there are 10 guys for every gal on here, and with the sexy pics and videos you have on your profile, I'm sure you get way more than most women! You are definitely right in that there are a lot of desperate individuals out there that only think of themselves, and likely have no clue how to treat a woman the right way. Best advice...ignore 'em and block them from emailing you again! If a guys' first impression scares you that much, it just ain't worth the trouble!

Of course, don't lose sight of those few good ones out there...it's hard to find us through all the riff-raff!


wetclitopened 48F

4/9/2009 9:02 pm

well i am telling them, and it seems when i refuse to be with them, they write me back some bs about maybe i betetr be with them or i wont be able to be with anyone else...i am surprised people think i dont get any email on here. many people think i get maybe 1 letter a month...i get tons of emails a month..and many times i cant keep up...sometimes it is so bad, i respond back a month later!!! anyway, the truth tothe matter, i dont think i am the BEST looking, and u all know, i always point out my worst features 1st...like my big stomach, but i make sure when someone writes me they know what my setbacks may be and not blind sighted...but to say the leastthat i am desperate and i need to be with them like i have no other choice is ridiculous...if that is the case, i will be alone and start my web camming again!!! lol...

this is getting some great feedback and i am happy you all can share your feelings about it!!! thanks so much!!!kisses....


SXmex4U 59M

4/10/2009 1:14 am

Right on the money babe, I couldnt have said it any other way...
=)


wetclitopened 48F

4/10/2009 1:30 am

yeah, well i have chatted with you many times dave and you know i just like to be me...and when you ask, i answer...

and gabe, you met me and chat with me all the time, and you know how i keep it...many times you laugh at me, but oh well...i say what i have to say!!! kisses....


jim1325 65M  
41 posts
4/10/2009 2:46 am

the multitude of phonies here take away from this lady... paid membership weeds out the losers... this lady is for real!!!!....


wetclitopened 48F

4/10/2009 6:58 am

J, thank you...that is so true...i am ignoring many flirts and emails from unpaid members...i believe that standard are the fakers...


looking4UinCT2 68M
163 posts
4/10/2009 8:48 am

Sounds like you are seeting them straight. Good for you!! No one should have to deal with ass holes or disrespectful, pushy people here or anywhere else. You're a fantastic lady and anyone who has ever chatted with you knows it. You have high standards and rightly so. It is your right to choose or not choose whom you want to spend time with and no one elses. Take care, Dan


rm_babyg1955 68M/63F

4/10/2009 10:07 am

you are right to say how you feel....we all do...we have that right to choose.....as members...we have tried to meet people...but we get the impression...that they are choosy and have every right if they want to meet us...but we too are not desperate....keep doing what you are doing...good luck...xoxoxo


jeebez3 53M

4/10/2009 1:25 pm

its to bad some people have to be pricks, they don't know a lady when they read about one. and if you don't want that person then its time too move to the next photo? and maybe some one who's try'n to wait his turn can bring you something really nice to say "HELLO" people here think if your on this site you can't get any and this isn't true. I have made many friends just being myself and found a friend thats going to be a great friend with benfits very soon!!! hope you don't leave before I can say "HELLO" in person and bring you a cheesecake to try and tell you HAPPY BIRTHDAY?


studboy_nola 50M

4/10/2009 1:55 pm

I know UR not desperite. I love the way you put it all out there. People will be jerks. I guess I have always seen that on this site - not just latley. Anyways just delete em an move on. I do.


SXmex4U 59M

4/11/2009 12:18 am

And stan agrees with you also
XOXOXO


HPinTX 49M
15 posts
4/11/2009 6:31 am

Wet,

You have always been sweet, cool and sexy. Where people would think that you were desperate is beyond me. I guess, like always, when there is someone new at the helm it does change things. You know that you are always welcome to hit me up and vent.

Your friend,
HPinTX y


bigbreasts9 53T

4/11/2009 6:46 pm

you go girl. I can totally understand where you are coming from,you deserve way more respect then that.so to everybody out there treat the lady with respect she fully deserves to be treated as a kind hearted and sweet woman that she is.


HOT_PINK78 45F

4/11/2009 9:33 pm

WOW very nice blog.. i don't know you but i can tell you are for REAL lady!!! you TELL it like it is !! YOU GO GIRL!!


wetclitopened 48F

4/11/2009 11:01 pm

ok, now, i am sorry i had not followed my blog for a few very good replies...but as i read the responses more and more, you all know exactly what i am talking about...

i will continue to be me, and i will always be choosy at who i am with...especially with all the people that want to meet me, i have to be choosy...will not meet and sleep with everyone...and many times i am taking the people that are so pushy and rude as problem people that will probably bring drama to me later in life...

latindom pretty much put it all in perspective..what he wrote is so true...poeple can be demanding on the net, but in real life, it makes them take a step back...

roadrunner also knows very well how the desperate people are..and i liked that posting...made me think how small minded people are!!!

now studboy and sxmex know me from personal level and they know i dont have to tolerate this mess...now i am not saying i am all that, but i know who i have been with and who i may future be with, and it is because i wanted them...lol...

hpintx and bigbreast know that i have emailed with them quite a bit and always hold my demeanor to be nice and always excoted to talk to my true friends on here...

hot pink78, yes you do not know me, but i am REAL... that is the only way i know how to be...myself!!!

thanks to all you guys, i will keep up my postings and i always appreciate you great people i have come to know and consider all to be my friends!!!


rm_gumptwo2 49M
2 posts
4/12/2009 2:28 am

Hey girl I'm never much on words and been working out in the gulf so i can define desperate needing beer and a good women but all that aside as far as this site is concerned " (desperate) couldn't get laid in a mmmmm cheap, very south of the boarder house of ill repute with a $100 bill. follow your blogs now and the seems like your a nice lady keep ti up enjoy them.


rm_otis2828 50M
3 posts
4/12/2009 6:26 am

Hey sexy, I do not know how anyone could have said it any better. You are very fun to hang out with I wish I wasnt working all thease hours so we could go out again. Thank you for keeping it real and setting those jerks straight! See ya soon babe!


wetclitopened 48F

4/12/2009 7:00 am

gump2, that was funny, but i do know what you saying...and that is the appropriate usage the way you put it...

otis, i will always keep it real!!! kisses...


rm_brucej42 60M

4/13/2009 5:40 am

Hi Wet,

I think there was another answer on here that said it best.

If these people were to meet you in real life they wouldn't
act this way. The internet is medium that allows people to act like
fools and get away with it.

Don't be discouraged though, you are a classy lady and every now and then you will run across a guy you will find common ground with.
Til then just read and laugh, when you find one with something to say you will know.

hugs......


rm_texHtown 38M
24 posts
4/15/2009 8:38 am

Well written and explained. Surely assuming desperation is just wishful thinking on the part of those that do so. Sure, being a standard member, I don't have access to your profile, but based on your comments as well as those which followed, You're indeed not the desperate sort.

Either way, do enjoy yourself (as it sounds like ya have been)!


ritamichelle 63M/65F
3 posts
4/22/2009 8:41 am

You tell them hunni the only jackasses on here are the ones that begin to assume that you want, need or desire them......... stay sexy, hugs D and M.


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