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Women Say Men... Aren.t as Sexy... As Men Think They Are... ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ—  

Paulxx001 67M
8732 posts
5/18/2021 10:45 am

Last Read:
6/14/2021 9:50 pm

Women Say Men... Aren.t as Sexy... As Men Think They Are... ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ—

When I'm in my car, I don't have the time or patience to fiddle with playlists or search for themed music; I choose whatever random radio station is available and listen until I get fed up โ€” then I flip to the next airwave. It's rare for me to get glued to one frequency for any period. Yet yesterday, I was stuck on 'The Beat 92.5' ; they'd sucked me in with their โ€” 'Question of the Day.'


'What do men do โ€” that THEY think is sexy โ€” but has the OPPOSITE effect on women?'

Interesting query. Here are some of the answers that were texted.

- Send dick pics. (Of course.)
- Wear socks to bed. (What man thinks that's sexy?)
- Call middle-aged women 'hot'. (The term ladies prefer, is 'attractive' or 'beautiful'.)
- Wear pants that are too tight. (I can see that.)


And then the DJ opened up the phone lines. Who knew women had so much to say about men? The first caller must have enjoyed 'Happy Hour' somewhere in this city; it was evident as she spoke that she'd had a few.

"Just because you buy a woman one fucking drink doesn't mean you own her for the night."

The DJ had forgotten to press the seven-second delay, and โ€” after another second of stunned silence โ€” he cracked up. Meanwhile, the lady continued.

"Don't think women get impressed with one drink. Are we expected to sit next to you ALL fucking night because of that two-for-one one glass of whatever you just bought us?"

After I'd stopped laughing, I paused and thought about what the caller had said. I might have been guilty of THAT faux-pas โ€” once or twice.

Traffic barely budged, but I didn't mind. The DJ was still chuckling and questioned whether or not he'd lost his job. I sat in my car and listened and got an education from all the women who called. Who knew? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

................


I guess these socks are sexy; sort of.



Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 10:47 am

What do men do โ€” that THEY think is sexy โ€” but has the OPPOSITE effect on women?

Men? Ladies? Feel free to put in your two cents. โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 10:49 am

I'll say โ€” putting on too much cologne.๐Ÿค”

But if I felt SEXY, wasn't THAT the point? Or was it to attract a female ; or was it both?
One outta three ain't bad.๐Ÿ˜Š


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 11:35 am

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Can't wait to see the contributions to this one, although honestly nothing very funny or unique is popping into my head. How about my least favorite kind of kisser? The guy who, without any kissing 'foreplay', jams a stiff tongue into your mouth. Like he's trying to fuck your mouth with his tongue. Not sexy.


donsv1962 61M

5/18/2021 1:04 pm

interesting time he had there

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
5/18/2021 1:15 pm

Those "leather" plastic panties are a pitch to take back off/ esp. when wet!!! ( dont ask). But the secret is a thin coating of baby powder or similar, corn starch put on the inside! They kind of roll off then. But I bet you've already been stuck in them at least once! if its you Im looking at in photos.
Next....

Try the full body, black laytex suit! Putting on and off....separates the boys from the men!!

Now on my Blog: ๐Ÿ‘„ New Pictures ๐Ÿ‘“


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
5/18/2021 2:46 pm

I must admit I never understood the 'One drink and she's mine unwritten rule'....

I also don't understand sending dick pic nor Socks to bed....


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/18/2021 2:50 pm

Thongs. Tongue pics. Too much jewelry. Poor flirting skills.


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/18/2021 3:09 pm

Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:02 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    [image]

    Can't wait to see the contributions to this one, although honestly nothing very funny or unique is popping into my head. How about my least favorite kind of kisser? The guy who, without any kissing 'foreplay', jams a stiff tongue into your mouth. Like he's trying to fuck your mouth with his tongue. Not sexy.
Stiff tongue ๐Ÿ˜, huh?
Yep, I can see that one.

This Q might have been tougher than anticipated. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚

I know that as far as I'm concerned, NOTHING about a woman โ€” these days โ€” is unsexy; absolutely NOTHING ! ๐ŸŒน โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:03 pm

    Quoting donsv1962:
    interesting time he had there
You never know what people will say on live radio.
Thanks for popping in..๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:06 pm

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    Those "leather" plastic panties are a pitch to take back off/ esp. when wet!!! ( dont ask). But the secret is a thin coating of baby powder or similar, corn starch put on the inside! They kind of roll off then. But I bet you've already been stuck in them at least once! if its you Im looking at in photos.
    Next....

    Try the full body, black laytex suit! Putting on and off....separates the boys from the men!!
If it's you looking at me then that's me. ๐Ÿ˜Š
Hey, how have you been? ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Ya know, I've never tried latex. I'll take your tips to heart if I ever try rubber! โ—

Good to see you. ๐Ÿ‘


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:10 pm

    Quoting GhostofH:
    I must admit I never understood the 'One drink and she's mine unwritten rule'....

    I also don't understand sending dick pic nor Socks to bed....
That one drink myth is ONE I've seen. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Those others are questionable; that crowd just started piling on men and lost their direction.

Plus, it's a tough Q; as I mentioned to 'Smart.' There's NOTHING unsexy about women I see these days. Have my standards lowered? ๐Ÿค” โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
Ya know what I mean? ๐Ÿค”


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:14 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".
Hmmm... Reeeelee...
Ooops.

Okie dokie ; note taken. โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
Anything else?
I'm pretty forgiving these days and nothing you could do would turn my switch off.
But I get your point. Do you write that person off at that point? ๐Ÿค”


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 5:26 pm

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Something I can't stand is when a man who I don't know, never chatted with, viewed or exchanged a message with, contacts me and calls me "Babe" or "Cutie" or says, "Hey Girl".
BINGO!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 5:37 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Thongs. Tongue pics. Too much jewelry. Poor flirting skills.
Wow! All of those are good ones... I mean bad ones! ๐Ÿ‘
So, ya met a few guys like THAT? lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
5/18/2021 8:44 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Hmmm... Reeeelee...
    Ooops.

    Okie dokie ; note taken. โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž
    Anything else?
    I'm pretty forgiving these days and nothing you could do would turn my switch off.
    But I get your point. Do you write that person off at that point? ๐Ÿค”
I make it clear how I feel about their comments. Their reaction will determine if the communication continues; it rarely does. Other โ€œnon-sexyโ€ stuff includes: while on a date flirting with wait staff or leering at other women; indiscriminate swearing; grabbing their crotch or indicating the size of whatโ€™s hidden; talking about their past โ€œconquestsโ€. Embodying, โ€œYou only get one chance to make a first impression,โ€ goes both ways ๐Ÿ˜‰.


Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:59 pm:
And you've experienced all that stuff? ๐Ÿค” Wow
So you think that I should quit swearing? I use it mostly โ€” for dramatic effect.

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
5/18/2021 8:51 pm

I sense that you're feeling the last year of isolation pretty acutely, Paul...


Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:46 pm:
I would have rewritten it and sent a better rebuttal but I don't want to set new records, and I'm tired. Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ I'm not listening to you in the future and /or ill proof what I write in the future. โ— โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Paulxx001 replies on 5/18/2021 9:54 pm:
I'll quit while I still can. โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/18/2021 9:52 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I sense that you're feeling the last year of isolation pretty acutely, Paul...
Lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Well, 'acutely' might be overstating things, but... I've become more tolerant of the attributes the opposite sex demonstrate? ๐Ÿค”
Don't you miss getting close to members of the other team? ๐Ÿค” That cute way they strut into a room, tight pants ๐Ÿ‘– stopping their circulation as waves of their pungent cologne roll in fragrant waves and smack you in the nose? ๐Ÿค” โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 2:17 am

    Quoting  :

Good safety tip! ๐Ÿ‘
So, you've never been fooled by that guy who bought you that drink? ๐Ÿค”
Men are quirky beasts, aren't they? ๐Ÿ˜‚ lol โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


mc_justmc 63M

5/19/2021 4:06 am

I listen to Spotify when I'm driving. Hard to get fed up with your own playlist. Manbuns, I don't know what women think about them but they annoy the shit out of me.


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
5/19/2021 1:20 pm

Perhaps Paul "men" or women come to that, should not try so hard? And, as usual enjoyed your Blog - could picture you "cuckling along with the Dj"! Hey, and fuzzy socks and woolie caps could be sexy in front of the fire in winter, esp if that's all he, she is wearing?!

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 2:34 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    I listen to Spotify when I'm driving. Hard to get fed up with your own playlist. Manbuns, I don't know what women think about them but they annoy the shit out of me.
lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ Man-buns... yep! ๐Ÿ‘Œ โ—

My problem is that I have too many playlists and I've messed them up. I used to have themes. UGH, now...? Well now I just do my playlists at home.; where I can mess with it without hitting a tree. ๐Ÿค” โ—


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/19/2021 4:30 pm

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Perhaps Paul "men" or women come to that, should not try so hard? And, as usual enjoyed your Blog - could picture you "cuckling along with the Dj"! Hey, and fuzzy socks and woolie caps could be sexy in front of the fire in winter, esp if that's all he, she is wearing?!
True about trying too hard, but I imagine self confidence and self esteem has a part to play.
THAT radio wave is always provocative. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
I can see that 'socks' scenario, except on a day like today; 30ยฐC and the air is thick.
Let's forget about the cap and fireplace, and sit out on the deck and watch the sunset. I'm not wearing socks ๐Ÿงฆ. lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
Is it cold there? It's boiling here. ๐Ÿค” โ— โ— ๐Ÿ˜Ž


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 1:16 am

Facial hair IS a good one yet perceived as a sign of masculinity. A woman's perspective would also include how rough stubble feels on her body and its various creases. I'd imagine there might be some chafing. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

The most I've grown is a goatee, back in the day. If I try a beard, I have too many gaps.

Thanks for popping in and sharing your pov. Drop by any time. ๐Ÿ˜Žโ—


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
5/20/2021 2:35 pm

    Quoting  :

Mine neither. But, he's been photoshopped.
Many things? ๐Ÿค” Reeeleee... lol ๐Ÿ˜‚
As in...?
I'd agree both bullying and arrogance are NOT sexy. We had a hard time finding a vast list here.
Feel free to add โ€” I'm sure I'd recognize it if I saw it.
We're not THAT bad, are we? โ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž


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