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We chase away or best friend for WHAT
Posted:Apr 18, 2015 7:06 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:10 pm
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Although it seems to be the kiss that sends fire through the3 body and tornado winds to the soul, it is the broadened mind that supports the many sensual and erotic acts we do as people. Hold onto the lusty passions that keep your kisses true, but let go of your jealous ways and let you and your lover be true to the many loves that pass through your live. Caress the complexities that keep our lives interesting and never allow them to chase a true lover away. This is your note from your new online friend. Doug
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EYES
Posted:Feb 7, 2015 7:40 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2015 2:48 pm
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The eyes show the antiquity of the soul behind them are all your naughty thoughts and (secret) pleasures.
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How ugly can beauty be?
Posted:Apr 21, 2014 7:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2015 6:04 pm
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I have been a long time member of this site and have met a lot of people. Some good, some bad, some indifferent. Some I have met in person, some just online. Some I have kept in touch with and some I have not.

For those that appreciate the site and are non-judgemental I am impressed, thank you for being a part of a great site.

To those that suggest they are part of the beautiful people club, open minded (if you have a hard body, exercise 14 times a week, have a red sports car and will do back flips when I snap my fingers) or those young whipper snappers that believe that all older people are pervs. I have a simple message for you. You to will get old, your beauty is only skin deep and when people get to know you I believe you should be a real person with real thoughts and feelings, because beauty is magnified many times into ugly when you stir resentment into a relationship.

To us all treat others well or the Curse will be with you!

Enjoy ..... Oh next time you put something cute on your profile that is cutting .... think about it.
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Age is good
Posted:Jul 27, 2013 6:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2016 1:12 pm
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I had a young lady tell me why she enjoyed my company and I smiled. She said ..." I'D RATHER BE AN OLDER MAN'S TREASURE, than A YOUNG MAN'S TOY"

Your thoughts?
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The moral of bbwnsa.com
Posted:Jun 15, 2013 5:39 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:10 pm
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Before sex, you help each other get naked. After sex, you dress only yourself.. Moral: In life no one helps you, once you're fucked.

Your thoughts
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summer shag
Posted:Apr 27, 2013 6:33 am
Last Updated:May 8, 2013 4:24 pm
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Well it looks like spring is finally trying to come our way. This means plenty of activity in the outdoors .... LOL .... yes I am sure many have already been planning outdoor shags just cause!
Well most of us here have already decided to take the adventure and explore? Has anyone got any good little ditums about sex outdoors?
What would you like to do?
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Secret Cheaters
Posted:Mar 30, 2013 6:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 5:52 am
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TOP REASONS PEOPLE CHEAT

1. Some one they know is cheating (usually the one they think shouldn't be)!
2. Cheat helps develop such an easy EXIT strategy from a relationship going the wrong way!
3. Boredom in the bedroom face it you can be bore quickly if you don't have someone that likes to wiggle as much or more than you do!
4. Emotinal withdrawl cut the emotions and your relationship is going south, emotions is what makes it all fun and if you have none pack it in!
5. Feeling neglected, ignored or unappreciated ...... the sparks of a new buddy playing with your everythings can really get the butterflies going .... that is what keeps occasional buddies so close.
6. Lack of intimacy .... now who does not enjoy intimacy that comes naturally. So where does it go with our partners???? damn
7. Self-esteem you may not think you have all the best curves but when you really feel you don't have any of the curves it is way nice to have someone explore everyone of them and come back for more.
8. Being Bad is part of all of us. It is a requirement of life now and again to let that naughty person out and this is probably best done with another person that is letting their naughty out!
9. Not enough sex, well go figure ..... I guess the key is to find another person that is not getting enough sex and they can be buddies! Oh my maybe this is what drove the term F**K Buddy
10. The secret is so naughty to keep and allows you to remain somewhat anonymous help you open yourself to new explorations and adventures with your new found buddy ... No wonder we enjoy the secret us!

Your thoughts?
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How important is the mind ... and the body ?????
Posted:Jan 18, 2013 7:47 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2013 6:05 am
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THIS IS SO GOOD I HAVE TO SHARE IT

When you’re plus size woman, people like to say "yeah, she's cute in the face", as if being full figured is such a disgrace. Honey, I’m cute in the face, and I’m thick in the waist. I look good whether I’m in cotton, leather, or lace. I’m beautiful, vibrant and above all, smart! And there's more to me than my weight, I also have a heart. Yes my clothes maybe a bigger size, that just means you have access to a bigger prize. We all are not self-conscious about our weight, and we never have a problem getting a date. So don’t think your small frame gives you more pull, I’m a hot, sexy, curvy woman with a figure that's full. ;0)

YOUR THOUGHTS???
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open the mind and the door opens with it
Posted:Dec 21, 2012 1:09 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:10 pm
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Well, another year about to pass by! No end of the world, so guess that means it is safe to explore.

I am always looking for a like mind ... anone there? I am a pretty ordinary guy and most would never think that I have such passionate ... yes somewhat naughty thoughts behind my vanilla smile. Well like most I do, so if there is someone that may be looking to participate in a journey that would explore the mind, body and soul ... let's chat. I am not into Drama but do enjoy stimulation!

LOL, sounds like a profile .... Hmmm maybe it's an extension to my profile and who I am!

Stop by and say hello, don't get hung up on small stuff K.
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Summer Stimulates The Soul
Posted:Apr 29, 2012 7:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2013 2:04 pm
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Hey all, summer is here (kinda) and with the nice weather we all get to go outside and play. Since I have been around the bbwnsa.com block for a long time I guess I have noticed that flock of newbies CUM and go! I still enjoy the foundation group even with their quirks.

I find that I am here to chat and as those of you know that have had a chat or two with me, I am a flirt beyond flirts (with respect of course). But hey I do enjoy it and find it very nice to chat with some very classy people that seem to just want to let go and chat those naughty things that are on their minds away!

I still like a classy person in public that has that diviant or perv or slut inside them and wants an outlet to let it escape. Now in saying this I have also found those that believe they are going to find their life long partner on here and after two chats they want to hook up (not)! Some have their life long partner and say they want to chat until the get the tingle to hook up (not).

This is bbwnsa.com and I have found it to be a fun site and have met some people that have been great long time friends in my life. The majority being between 40 to 60 (although most at 40 hold 39 for a couple of years and most at 60 hold 59). I really don't care about their age as long as they don't care about mine.

To those friends that come and chat and we have an online friendship THANK YOU, for those that are here for a fun time and not a long time, Good Luck and thanks for stopping by on your journey.
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Been A While
Posted:Apr 1, 2012 7:04 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:10 pm
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Well, it has been a while since I posted in my blog! I'm guessing because I have found a couple of interested people to chat with here and there on line and also seem to be keeping busy.

I have to chuckle as I see some of the newbies come on and do wish them the best, but as usual they re-enforce that dumb-shit mentality that on the bbwnsa.com site (which I still think is one of the better ones) is where they are going to find their loyal partner that touches all the right buttons ..... Oh MY!!!!

So my random thoughts say that if you want to explore and see what turns your crank, forget about finding the love of your life on here. bbwnsa.com will probably help you find a horny like mind that is open to a play partner, friends with benefits or someone for the casual booty call.

In saying this I know of people that the friendship has lasted a long time and have found memories of a drive out to Bragg Creek with a special friend about 11 years ago .... still friends today and have met on occassion with special special results for us both.

Anyway thought I would share this to help the newbies, please any others that have an opinion on this share. Newbies what has your experiences been?

Enjoy all Hugs Doug
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A beautiful MIND
Posted:Feb 20, 2012 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2020 12:08 am
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The mind is a sweet thing indeed. It is always the best when feed the pleasure we all imagine to some degree or another. So the question becomes to what degree do you allow your mind to wander. Many of us will allow our minds to wander in the discreat side and enjoy the pleasures that can not be held up the the scrutinies of our social state all around us. To one person normal exciting exploration can be seen as totally kinky or perverted.
It is my mind to suggest that the kink inside us be the catalist that sets us free in discreet escape time.

Be free and enjoy.
YOUR THOUGHTS
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THE GAME CHANGER
Posted:Feb 19, 2012 10:07 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2024 12:10 pm
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The Internet is a "game-changer" that has provided a form of temporary anonymity to explore without judgment. "The bar for intensity and novelty has been raised," if you want to safetly explore this come and chat, if not that's ok too!

All things are possible with the right discreat friend?

Your thoughts?
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