Hi, About me: 51 year old, 6'4", 240 lb. guy. I am a very clean, D/D free, honest, very loyal, secure, open-minded, easy-going, laid back, nice guy. Have never been a "player" or into the bar scene. Divorced for about 20 years now. Though not actively looking for a LTR I am open to whatever may happen down the way. Someone who can be a friend for now and have fun with me. Someone who wants to be pleased often and likes to please, explore and LOVES sex! I believe in any relationship whether it be a dating/casual or long term relationship there needs to be some sort of emotional connection and caring. I like to get to know my partners, what they like, dislike, fantasies, etc. I am very much into foreplay, love kissing, massage, oral, using toys at times, etc. I've always loved to please, explore, stimulate and make the woman I am with cum and cum and cum and enjoy tons of foreplay (though a "quickie" once in a while is nice). A women who can squirt is an added plus-all the women I've been with "became" squirters during our time together...it's such a turn-on to see/experience a woman having such intense pleasure. Throughout the years I've always been aware of a dominant side to me and have always "lightly" been able to explore this with my partners to varying degrees. . I have enjoyed light bondage, light spanking, etc. but am not into inflicting pain or anything crazy. To put it another way, if the woman I am with is not enjoying or getting pleasure from what we are doing then we are not doing it. At this point free to play and explore with like-minded women. Honestly not much into sports. Prefer to spend time listening to music at home, going to see live bands, concerts, working on varied "projects"-own 2 homes (1 is rental property), so upkeep keeps me busy as well as my regular job. Divorced over 20 years now, s are grown, out on their own. I enjoy getting together with friends, my s, my family. Generally healthy and active though I do smoke-actively trying to quit, have switched over to an e-cigarette! WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. /:>:*:D

My Ideal Person So, what am I looking for? A woman who is open-minded, honest, loyal, clean, caring, attractive who enjoys sex and can communicate what she wants/likes/dis-likes. Do I want a totally submissive woman? No, but I would like to find someone who wants to at least explore this type of play at times, have some interest. I'm respectful and conscious of limits and boundaries. Quality over quantity is the goal here so not looking to collect body counts or just get laid. I do believe in almost any relationship there needs to be both physical attraction and some sort of an emotional connection. Ultimately, I would like find someone to not just fuck but spend time with, actually talk with, laugh with and enjoy each others company.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd, Yes, Candlebox, Rammstein, NIN, Tool, STP,
Kitaro, George Winston, Sarah McLaughlin, etc

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of KinkDB's responses